Hello everyone

 

 

Another month, another international creative writing challenge for Tell Us About…. and this time the theme is Musical Influences, a theme chosen by the writer and blogger Suzy Turner.

 

I began this theme by saying to myself, ‘I wonder whether music means all that much to me now’. I expect most of you are shocked at that statement. Indeed, have I ever been influenced by music? I mean I have loved some genres of music, especially when I was younger, but now, if I have a choice, I always, always, turn to the spoken voice. For starters I am a podcast addict, of a particular kind, the political and/or historical podcast, so whenever I can, I listen to The Rest is Politics with Rory Stewart and Alistair Campbell. When I’ve finished their Wednesday and Thursday podcasts I go on to listen to Empire with the author William Dalrymple and Ann Anand, then there is The Rest is History with Tom (not the actor) Holland and Dominic Sandbrook. And don’t forget The Rest is Money with Robert Peston and Steph McGovern. If I have any time left to spare for podcasts I might move on to The News Agents. And so it goes, I’ll look for another podcast and another.

 

Then there’s my time to read, my time to write (always in the morning). I mean unlike Mr F I couldn’t possibly write with any music in the background, too distracting by far, I have to have total silence. And then there’s my exercise class time, and going out and about, for walks or shopping and don’t forget the visits to various cultural activities such as museums and art exhibitions. In the evenings we relax by watching films and television, not all of it brilliant, as I am a great fan of crap tv! So, there you go, music just doesn’t feature in my life and I’m going to tell you my perception of music. If I hear music, any music, when I’m thinking or trying to concentrate it’s like bees buzzing in my ears – it’s very irritating. So that’s my view of music. I’d rather avoid it, if you don’t mind.

 

But, it wasn’t always like that.

 

Perhaps it’s something I’ve inherited from my parents as I don’t remember either of them playing any music of any description in our house whatsoever, that is until both me and my sister, Elizabeth, became teenagers and we both had our own record players. So yes, when I was younger, I loved all the current pop hits.

 

The thing is I grew up with in the 1950s when television was incredibly conventional with news readers wearing DJs and, goodness me, not one of the newsreaders was a woman, although there were some female continuity announcers who wore evening gowns. But slowly things changed, and television began to acknowledge and pick up on pop. Who remembers the Six-Five Special, which began in early 1957 and featured, shock, horror – pop music? I was eleven years-old and the first few programmes were extraordinary events as television always closed down between 6.0pm and 7.pm. Why? To put young children to bed! That really happened, and that was why it happened! The BBC was still very benevolent and aware that the good of the nation was in their hands.

 

But to an eleven-year-old, the feeling of wow, what is this, when the first Six-Five Special ran on a Saturday evening at, you’ve guessed it, 6.05pm. I can still hear that theme tune in my head. It felt so exciting, so audacious, so transgressive, so daring, to be watching the television and listening to this new-fangled pop – through the hours of 6 and 7pm! The BBC still as conventional as ever and not really liking this ’popular music’ pulled the show the next year, when Oh Boy started on ITV and ratings dropped. We didn’t have this second channel, so our pop watching stopped until Juke Box Jury came on in 1959. This consisted of a very staid panel of people (chaired by none other than David Jacobs) who listened to the latest pop songs and award them something or other, can’t remember what.

 

Top of the Pops was the next big pop watch on television, and perhaps the best ever. It started in 1964 and ran for 40 seasons until 2006. I was 18 when that started, and I was a keen watcher. Oh, my goodness, I wasn’t a very good child or daughter, I watched and played pop as I knew it annoyed my parents. They didn’t like music much, but they really didn’t like pop. So, listening to pop music was part of me being a rebellious teen.

 

I had a great time being a teenager in the late 50s and early 60s and I remember those times best for the way we spent our weekends. Every Saturday we met up in the one coffee shop in my nearest town (Woking) and while we drank our frothy coffee (that tasted of nothing much at all) in the clear plastic coffee cups, we would discuss the latest pop song. This would be well before the Beatles, whose first hit was From Me to You in 1963 was when I was 17, and the Rolling Stones, whose first hit was also in 1963. No, we would be discussing the relative merits of Tommy Steele, possibly Cliff, and of course, the King, Elvis.

 

After drinking our coffee, we would move on to a local department store to look at dress patterns and bolts of material, to decide whether we’d make a skirt or a dress. I remember while doing my A-levels I found enough time to make myself a very Mary Quant-like dress with a large cut-out circle at the back. Then on to the record shop where we would go into a booth and listen to a record to see whether it was worth buying. If we stayed out for our lunch it would be a burger at the Wimpy and then a film at the cinema, most likely one of those ghastly films starring Elvis, which I adored at the time, but not forgetting there would be a black and white noir crime film beforehand, with a newsreel and a cartoon as well. This was all considered quite normal and when I left home, for the delights of London and nursing, cinemas might also have had an organ that played in the interval. I remember one that rose from the depths to play during the interval surrounded by neon flashing lights.  Again, that wasn’t considered unusual, we just took that for granted as something to be expected in our capital city.

 

I do remember that the latest thing in the way of pop concerts was to have a string of pop stars performing in local venues. I remember one, held in our local cinema, which I went to when I was coming up to 18 and the headliners were – the Rolling Stones!!! I had never ever seen such skinny legs encased in the tightest of black jeans. You could hardly hear them for the screaming!

 

But when I left home my musical influences broadened and with input from my nursing friends, I turned my attention to classical concerts especially at the Proms, the famous music festival held annually at the Royal Albert Hall, we went to many of those, often standing throughout the performance.  But the first classical concert I witnessed at this amazing venue was in 1963. I was 17 and studying for my A-levels. I’d recently taken my O-levels and in English Literature O-level we’d looked at the 1914-8 War Poets, and especially those of Wilfred Owen.  This concert was the first concert performance of Benjamin Britten’s War Requiem – reader, it blew my mind. It was my first experience of music heard for real, so to speak, and it was truly a life-changing experience. Thereafter, I went to many concerts at that venue and loved every one of them.

 

After a variety of boyfriends I met Mr F, at the quite late age of 27! A year later we married. Mr F is a quite the pop/rock music afficionado, and while I dragged him off to the proms, we also went to some gigs, and continued that for a while – gigs with Sting and Shade come to mind. But slowly that fizzled out and our tastes moved on to the visual and it is film and ‘looking’ that I do. Mr F meanwhile listens to music during the day when he’s in his office, on headphones, but I prefer silence or podcasts. I do like jazz and some female voices. When I hear them, I think, oh that’s nice. But. I don’t seek music out. There you go – that’s how it is with me and music.

 

And now it is time to read the other lovely women in this challenge. First of all, we have the writer Suzy Turner who thought up this month’s theme. Suzy’s Musical Influences have ranged from pop to rock, shaping her journey through diverse genres. From Madonna’s catchy tunes to the soulful rhythms of Motown, music has been a constant companion, inspiring her creativity and enriching her life. Click here to read Suzy’s post.

 

Gail from Is This Mutton was transfixed one day in 1971 by the star who became her icon. Since then there have been other dalliances, and she has even switched to a different type of music. But she still remains true to the Prettiest Star. Click on this link to find out who this star is!

 

Marsha who blogs at Marsha in the Middle grew up when AM radio reigned supreme. Elvis would be crooning in the background along with Tom Jones and even a little Frank Sinatra. As music changed from the crooners to rock to heavy metal to hip hop, Marsha’s tastes changed too. Or, did they? You’ll have to read her post here to discover the answer!

 

Debbie of Deb’s World goes back in time to her teenage self, rediscovers some favourites from watching Countdown on TV and realises she was very naïve when it comes to song lyrics! Read more about this here!

 

The iconic Jill who blogs at Grown up Glamour found this an interesting theme as she wasn’t sure she had any Musical Influences, instead Jill simply looks at music she has enjoyed. To read about this, click here.

 

That is all for now, thank you so much for reading to the end, but do tell me about your musical influences. However, as you know, I’m in Spain now, so do forgive me for not replying to your lovely comments, but I will read them, for sure.

 

With love, Penny, the Frugalfashionshopper

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8 thoughts on “Tell Us About ….Musical Influences

  • 16th May 2024 at 4:26 pm
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    As a 12-13 year old I wrote to Motown records regularly for signed photographs. They were probably printed autographs but I had 8×10 black and white photos of all the greats Aretha Franklin, Percy Sledge, Sam and Dave, Otis Redding. I remember the day Otis Redding died and feeling shocked and so sad. I knew all the soul stars by listening to Johnnie Walker on Radio Caroline on a tiny, tinny transistor radio late at night. I loved the flower power era of American music and of course I loved the Beatles. I lived in Liverpool, I think it was compulsory!
    I’m 69 and often play punk and heavy metal through ear buds while I’m out. Makes me smile that those I pass have no idea 😀

  • 16th May 2024 at 5:32 pm
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    I don’t think you’re alone Penny in not listening to music now. My mum stopped a long time ago, and my brother, who influenced me in the 70s, also lost interest. I enjoy podcasts but sometimes if my mind is in turmoil I prefer to listen to a playlist. I wouldn’t be without my 70s faves either. I’m uber- nostalgic so I can’t resist the music of my youth. Wasn’t it a great prompt?

  • 16th May 2024 at 7:36 pm
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    Isn’t it funny how we change, Penny? I must admit there are times when Michael has music on and it drives me nuts. If he leaves the house and it’s still playing, I’ll make a point of turning the damn music off! As much as I love listening to music…I have to be in the mood for it. I hate it if he puts it on and I haven’t got out of bed yet, but he hasn’t done that for a while so I’m guessing my bad moods has stopped it LOL! Like I said, I have to be in the mood!
    Great post, Penny!
    Hugs
    Suzy xx

  • 17th May 2024 at 3:57 am
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    I love reading your posts, Penny, because I feel like I’m right there with you! And, the history you share is amazing. Can you imagine kids today if the tv went off at 6:00? Well, they’d just switch to their handheld devices, wouldn’t they?

    While I’m not a huge fan of the Stones, I would have loved to have seen them in a small venue. That would have been something. I have seen some of Mick’s costumes at the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, and they are so small! I knew he was fit and trim, but wow!

    I love how rebellious you were, Penny!

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  • 17th May 2024 at 7:50 am
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    As usual you have put your own interesting take on this one Penny. I can’t remember music in our home in my early years either , I think that changed with my sister who is four years older than me and was quite into the music scene as a teenager.
    I so enjoyed a peek into British life through your eyes in the 50’s and 60’s.
    Interesting how we change isn’t it – I still like music but as to going to a live concert , no thanks give me a fashion exhibition any time.

  • 17th May 2024 at 7:31 pm
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    I am a couple of years older but I remember that so many of my friends adored Elvis and we would go to see his movies together. I was not as big a fan but never let on. We all watched American Bandstand on TV after school and on weekends there might be a party. I went to a small all girls school but there were also a number of all boys schools in the area so it was kind of, very innocent, fun. After I got married my husband and I really liked the folk rock which was very much in favor at the time, Peter Paul and Mary, Joan Baez, Leonard Cohen and Bob Dylan. a non musical fact is the Bob Dylan and I have exactly the same birthday, May 24, 1941. ( happy birthday to us I guess) After I became a single working mom I did not pay as much attention to music. Both my children are musical and I did enjoy listening to their music, I guess mostly what is called classic rock. My son is still in a band which performs locally. It’s called Snap, Crackle, Pop which plays rock, folk and pop. He plays guitar and does vocals. I have gone to hear them, they are quite good but it’s not his day job. My daughter does local theater, sometimes drama but more usually will sing or dance. When Rachel, my daughter was a teen I went with her to some concerts. I liked the music that was popular at the time. I admit I have a hard time with the music of today, It seems so different not just with what I grew up with but even what my kids listened to.
    I do enjoy going to concerts of classical music. I am fortunate to have a rather good symphony just down the road from me. This year I only managed to get to one of their concerts because of conflicts and there is a university near by which has a strong arts program as well. Really I do live in an area which offers so much musically and in the arts in general. And for Christmas My son took me to the New York philharmonic. For many years I loved going to Caramoor in the Summer, a venue for outdoor concerts, It a bit of a drive so I am reluctant to go alone but maybe this year I can get together with friends. If not now when? Curious to see what the others have to say on the topic. Love from New York, Darby

  • 19th May 2024 at 1:11 pm
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    Such an interesting topic! The first LP I ever bought, with my pocket money, was by the Beatles. I was a student in the seventies, when I developed a taste for Led Zeppelin, Deep Purple and Pink Floyd. Then there were The Stones. I saw them in 2018, in Southampton – brilliant. I also listen to podcasts, but when driving I love to listen to music. My youngest son bought me a Spotify subscription and I still love to listen to music. If a song plays from my youth, I’m immediately transported, on a wave of nostalgia, back in time.

  • 23rd May 2024 at 4:49 pm
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    What an enjoyable walk down Memory Lane. Love the way you spent your teen Saturdays. I so enjoy a good routing. Bravo to you for making your own clothing even as a girl!! I remember looking at patterns and fabric with my mom but I only attempted a sewing a single dress on my own. Isn’t it amazing that you saw the Stones? I remember watching the Beatles on Ed Sullivan and my grandmother grumbling about their long hair. She adored Elvis…so clean cut!!

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