I’ve just written a guest blog (not published yet – you’ll hear more about it when it’s posted). I wrote about some of my ideas and it seemed to me that it would be good to revisit some of the reasons and rationale for this blog.

I write from the point of view of someone who saw the Rolling Stones live in concert before they were famous.  Previous to that I’d saved up my pocket money and bought a hipster outfit of a black polo neck jumper, a tan shift dress and black stockings, shocking my parents, ‘what are you wearing, dear?’ Then I moved on to a Mary Quant outfit, when she first came on to the market, and read Germaine Greer’s The Female Eunuch and went on the pill as soon as I could. We were rebels weren’t we? So, we’re not going to be grateful and accepting as the pre-war generation as we continue to age and need support, well I’m not.   I’m going to be a very demanding, cantankerous old lady, I can tell you.

In the meantime, I think that older women are exceedingly short-changed in the fashion media and by older women I don’t mean the 50+ age group, I mean the 65+ and well over that age. The way I see it, there’s a great deal in the media these days for women of 50+ who are just beginning to feel that age is creeping up. For instance, the blogger and journalist, Alyson Walsh, has written a really great book, Style Forever, which has just landed on my mat this morning. I can’t wait to read it! But I write from the point of view of someone whose age is not that far away from 70 (I’ll be 69 in June). And I don’t subscribe to the mantra 60 is the new 40 because when I reach 70 I’ll acknowledge my age and say this is the new 70!

But most of the time I ignore my age. It is just another number.

And it is possible to find your style at a late stage in life because that’s what happened to me. I retired from work, and formal suits, sighed with relief and wore nothing but jeans for three years. But jeans got boring.  So, slowly but surely I moved away from the casual and the comfortable and found that those frilly, frou-frou, slightly retro skirts were fun and, what’s more, they suited me. And then I found that charity shops have every kind of clothing you could imagine, and all within my very small budget. The hunt for the bargain began because you can dress well, and very stylishly, on less. And this is what I want to share with all of you.

But I do take ageism seriously and underlying all my frivolity is my view that older women should break every rule there is on fashion and style. We. Wear. What. We. Want. And what’s more we should buy it now and wear our best clothes all the time (apart, that is, when gardening and cleaning our abode) because life is short, sisters, and we should do it, as they say, for ourselves – and to have fun!

To all new readers and followers hello and a big thank you for reading this post.

That’s all for now

Penny, the frugalfashionshopper

 

 

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12 thoughts on “My ethos which is, amongst other things, as you age you can dress well on less!

  • 21st March 2015 at 8:50 am
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    Yes, yes, yes!!! Love your writing and thank you for being such an inspiration.

  • 21st March 2015 at 8:50 am
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    Yes, yes, yes!!! Love your writing and thank you for being such an inspiration.

  • 21st March 2015 at 11:50 am
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    Here, here!!! Thank you. You said exactly what I feel. I retired last year and I’m still trying to find my new “uniform.” Keep writing, I’m bright behind you.

    • the frugal fashion shopper
      23rd March 2015 at 8:12 am
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      Yes, retirement does not necessarily mean wearing casual, gardening clothes all the time! Some of the time, of course, but it’s a question of saying who am I in this stage of my life. The ‘uniform’ for you, will come to you, and you’ll say, yes, that’s how I want to dress from now onwards.

  • 21st March 2015 at 11:50 am
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    Here, here!!! Thank you. You said exactly what I feel. I retired last year and I’m still trying to find my new “uniform.” Keep writing, I’m bright behind you.

    • the frugal fashion shopper
      23rd March 2015 at 8:12 am
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      Yes, retirement does not necessarily mean wearing casual, gardening clothes all the time! Some of the time, of course, but it’s a question of saying who am I in this stage of my life. The ‘uniform’ for you, will come to you, and you’ll say, yes, that’s how I want to dress from now onwards.

  • 22nd March 2015 at 8:01 am
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    absolutely agree! Love your blog – and you! Did an inventory as we drove to Newhaven for the film last night: jumper – remnant from Woolovers; cardigan, charity shop,; skirt – more than 15 years old tho bought new at the time. My best bargain recently – a book of unused multi-functional dress patterns, published in 1976, UNUSED, UNOPENED, for £2, bought in Henfield last week. Back to sewing this summer! Let’s rock! (Oh, the pearls were more expensive than all the rest, of course, but i wear them a lot, and even they were reduced on the last day of the Country Living Fair several years ago.)

    xx Wendy

    • the frugal fashion shopper
      23rd March 2015 at 8:14 am
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      Oh, I admire you for saying you’ll go back to sewing your clothes – I used to make loads including clothes for my children – do you remember Clothkits? But not now – but the pattern book sounds amazing.

  • 22nd March 2015 at 8:01 am
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    absolutely agree! Love your blog – and you! Did an inventory as we drove to Newhaven for the film last night: jumper – remnant from Woolovers; cardigan, charity shop,; skirt – more than 15 years old tho bought new at the time. My best bargain recently – a book of unused multi-functional dress patterns, published in 1976, UNUSED, UNOPENED, for £2, bought in Henfield last week. Back to sewing this summer! Let’s rock! (Oh, the pearls were more expensive than all the rest, of course, but i wear them a lot, and even they were reduced on the last day of the Country Living Fair several years ago.)

    xx Wendy

    • the frugal fashion shopper
      23rd March 2015 at 8:14 am
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      Oh, I admire you for saying you’ll go back to sewing your clothes – I used to make loads including clothes for my children – do you remember Clothkits? But not now – but the pattern book sounds amazing.

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